So after a month of not being online, I'm back.
Getting over someone is not easy especially if you were with him for a long time or you thought it would last forever. Recently, I’ve been trying to get over a breakup and an hour before that I’m talking about how well everything is and even sharing stories about our tours such as in Hongkong, Boracay, Cebu, Bohol, Baguio, Pangasinan, Macau, Singapore among many others then an hour later I’ve talked about a heartbreak at a seriously horrible timing.
Though we’re almost complete opposites in just about EVERYTHING. (I guess opposites really do attract) He’s still my 1st boyfriend and after 7 long years of relationship, All of a sudden it just ended so quickly and I never thought about how much would I be affected by it that even if I’ve had a good roster that gave me Manila, Milan & Paris at the same week, I didn’t even bother to go out and just stayed in my room. I know every person is different in coping up some need to keep busy, find someone better, focus on career, etc. but there has to be some way to find closure. Getting over it takes time and maybe needed a few months, but they said you’d eventually move on.
Lesson Learned: You own your own happiness. No one can give it but yourself. You don’t need a partner to make you happy. You don’t need a ring on your finger to be secured. Happiness is a state of mind. Follow what makes you happy and always believe God has better plans for you just always look for the brighter side.
"Life is a Series of Departure and Arrivals..."
Very true! While others can add to our happiness it is up to us to find it first. I do think that the liffestyle of flying and being away from home can make a breakup more difficult, however our colleagues are also there for us to understand as many have been through the whole thing. I hope for you to recover from this quickly and there is always something to learn. As you say, things happen for a reason and I think that every person who is special to us is there to teach us something, whether they are here for a lifetime or a short time. *hugs* and we think of you often!
ReplyDeleteIt's good to hear from you again Star...I know how you feel, but you'll get over it, time heals all wounds ;)
ReplyDeletefriendship! be safe! :)
ReplyDeleteim sorry to hear that Star! I'm sure you'll find someone better. I've been there too, I broke up with my then bf for 3 years and 3months. I thought kami na din yun, but then again God has other plans for us. Look at me now... I'm happily married with a great hubby and cutie son. :D Cheer up! God bless...
ReplyDelete"Life is a Series of Departure and Arrivals..."
ReplyDeletevery true... ^___^
i love your fighting spirit star!!
not many can stood up like that and have the courage to tell it on public...
ur such a sweet girl and u deserve better... ^___^
Everything will be just fine, Star! :)
ReplyDeleteGodbless!
ditto...
ReplyDeleteGod Bless!
so sad naman ate.:(
ReplyDeletei know you can do it. cheer up.
don't be a prisoner of your past.
don't let that man to hurt you continuously.
maybe you should accept the fact that the man who left you
can go on his life without you.
THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN HIM :)
i know that you don't want him to leave behind
ReplyDeletebut keep in mind that letting go is not the
end of your world..but rather
IT IS THE BEGINNING OF YOUR NEW LIFE.
:)
I hope you can stay strong ! Cabin crew lifestyle is hard enough,... its a miracle lots of crews still go on everyday
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about what happened. Whatever emotional phase you're in now, it's just a phase, and one day you'll say to yourself, that's it, I'm moving on. Of course, easier said than done but hold on to that hope within, make it your anchor and you'll be fine... i saw a movie once where the lead actress said something like... until one day, you won't even remember how he looked like... blessings to you!
ReplyDeleteJust don't forget that you have me...
ReplyDeleteaww.. so that's one of the reason y ur not blogging.. im sorry to hear that i hope ul have ur fast recovery.. but if u anything or even just for a talk.. im always OL.. we cud talk :) i hope u can find ur INNER PEACE sooner than we expected.. just PRAY en trust GOD that u can do it FACE ur NEW LIFE! :)
ReplyDeleteingatz star! im here for u as ur frnd! :)
Hi! Ate Star..lam ko di mo ko kilala personally pero im a follower of your vlog..so sorry to hear that..kaya pala wala kang mga new post lately..makakayanan mo yan,marami ka ng na-experience na bagay at yung situation mo ngayon is .1 lang ng lahat ng naranasan mo..everything happends for a reason..at saka nanjan si Lord,may plans siya ngayon sayo..for sure..need mo lang daanan itong stage na ito para maging stronger person ka sa mga dadating pang chapter ng buhay mo..ur still young and marami pang much better..just be postive always and always ask for God's guidance..
ReplyDeletehello star...i know how you feel coz i have also gone thru it...hope this comment will help you a little bit...your blogs are one of my inspiration and consequently i browse thru your website.. i realy pity you for going thru this... i know how it hurts and you don't deserve to be sad..even thou i havn't meet you yet i know how wonderful person you are...
ReplyDelete"In these things we constantly lose and gain a lot of things, even people. Every goodbye is painful but eventually, we get through it in God’s time. When he give us something/someone better, that’s when we realize that letting go is just first part of the transition and moving on is not always the end.
Indeed that God didn’t create us to be survivors but rather we are born to be warriors. We fought a lot of battles and every new chapter in our life is always a new struggle. Guess that’s what makes us braver."
we have the same name of BF but the difference we broke after 7months were as you lose him after 7 years.. hope you'll find time reading it....
ReplyDeletelosing a man is just like losing shoes. once, i wanted a shoe very much and it was on sale. i was really in awe as to how beautiful and perfect it was for me. then, when i came back to buy it, somebody already took it home. i cried a lot. i was like saying, it was the only shoes im going to like forever.
months later, to my surprise, i saw different beautiful styles.much more perfect that the previous one.i bought a pair, it made me happy and until now, it still looks good on my feet.
…it may hurt a lot, very crushing that your heart will scream out death. but soon, in time, you will be healed and God won’t ever let you suffer again. His timing is perfect. he won’t give you a good, or a better man, but the best.
losing jerome is just losing a shoe on a SALE!!!
Thank you for all your comments... Tapos na ang emote mode ko, I feel so better and happy now.. Just like the status on my Facebook that says:
ReplyDelete"Every book has a story to tell with an ending. But there's no such thing as an ending, the book ends but the story continues. Our book ends now, but my story continues. LIFE GOES ON..."
Glad you are feeling better today! May you feel a bit better each day than the last :)
ReplyDeletewow it really is true... Seven years is a jinx, bad number. The same thing happened to me but maybe in a diffrent way. GBU star.
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